Janice I’m sorry for what Mary is going through … nobody knows what anyone is going through mentally or physically. All should be thoughtful and kind. We do not know Dave or Mary. It is nice that you are friends. How can you judge and say “shame on all of us”. Illness does not give you justification to bully and create this drama over a game of eggs. We all need to respect EVERYONE. IF this person Dave has created all this drama then “shame on him” … Sorry this has escalated this far over nothing that matters.